How do we motivate a child to work hard and achieve? Â Is there a secret? How does one teach a child about motivation?
My blog this week explores the idea of childrenâ€™s success related to their motivation intent. How to motivate a child is aÂ question that many parents and educators of children ask everyday.
Everything we say and do sends a message to children. Some of these messages will increase a childâ€™s level of motivation, whilst others will be the complete opposite.
In a survey conducted by the Canadian Education Association, over 80% of parentsÂ indicated that they “thought it was necessary to praise childrenâ€™s intelligence to give them confidence in their abilities and motivate them to succeed.”(Boosting achievement with messages that motivate by Carol S Dweck) Unfortunately recent research indicates that this theory is wrong!
The research suggests that the most resilient and motivated children are the ones that believe that intelligence is not fixed (born with it mentality) rather it is something that can be developed through effort and learning. This research really emphasises the point that the key to achievement is what a childÂ believes about intelligence.
The fixed mindset
A child with a fixed mindset will limit his or her chances to achieve. They want to look “smart” at all costs and do not like to undertake a task that may provide some challenges for them.Â Children with a fixed mindset tend to follow three rules:
1. Donâ€™t make mistakes
A child with a fixed mindset believes that making mistakes shows a lack of ability. They would believe that the mistake indicates that they are not good at that particular area and would try to avoid it in the future.
2. Donâ€™t work hard
A child with a fixed mindset believes that intelligent people should not have to work hard. If you work hard, it means that you have low intelligence and indicates a limited ability. The idea that high effort equals low ability is one of the worst beliefs fixed mindset children have.Â (Boosting achievement with messages that motivate by Carol S Dweck)
3. If you make mistakes, donâ€™t try and repair them
A child with a fixed mindset is only interested in whether an answer is right or wrong. If they get an answer wrong, they tend toÂ not care about what the correct answerÂ was. They do not want to correct their errors and understand the concept for future learning.
The growthÂ mindset
A child with a growth mindset is focused on the learning instead of the grades. Their main aim is to build on previous understanding and push themselves to the next level. Although they are not fixed on achievement, achievement usually goes hand in hand with this mindset.Â Children with a growthÂ mindset tend to follow three rules:
1. Take on challenges
2. Work hard
A child with a growth mindset believes that the harder you work at something, the better you will be at it. They do not believe that you are born with high intelligence or low intelligence but you can work hard and get success.
3. Confront your mistakes and correct them
Let us return to the initial questions I posed at the beginning of the article. How do we get our children to be motivated and work hard in order to achieve? The new question that we should ask ourselves is “How do we get our children to have a growth mindset and not a fixed one?
As parents and educators we need to focus on the process or journey that the child undertakes instead of the finished product. We can give praise to a child in regards to their persistence, strategies used, their change of thinking due to new learning, their questioning, critical thinking and creative ideas.
We can celebrate how a child solved a problem or how they undertook a difficult challenge. This is what will motivate a child to have a growth mindset. They need to see us as the parents and educators going through this process as well and observe how we deal with difficult and frustrating setbacks within a task.
It is great to praise a childâ€™s finished task (a child loves this intellegence praise) however, praising a childâ€™s process which could be their effort, concentration, choices and persistence is more powerful toÂ help a child achieve, have confidence and be a motivated learner.
I would like to thank a good friend and work colleague, Leanne for alerting me to this new research. This blog is dedicated to you.
Until next time …
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